No matter what platform you are on, there is a call for a picture. I’m sure there are numerous studies done proving seeing the face of an internet correspondent helps create a better connection. It makes sense, we tell a lot from faces in the real world. In kink, a lot of people chose to post their face. And a lot don’t. To be clear going into this, I do not post my face. I’ve made my choice, and I’m prepared to live with it.
The decision to post a face pic or not is up to the individual. Many have no problem with it, and those does show their willingness to commit. There are platforms you can post your face, your ass, your dick, how well you suck, how you fuck. There are a lot of guys who will want to see and appreciate. You are an adult, so you have made a decision on your life.
Others chose not to. No-Facers have their own reasons like Facers do. Some could have their jobs put in jeopardy if associated with kink. To some it may just be a preference. Regardless, a No-Facer is an adult and has made the decision just like a Facer has.
As discussions progress, very often a request to exchange face pics, to do a video call, or something else is made. This is perfectly natural, and shows a progression of of the relationship. No-Facers have a new choice. Some will share with people they have grown to trust. Others will not. Here is where we get to the crux of the matter. Given the ease and expectation of face pics, if you chose not to share, be prepared for that to cool things down.
The other person, be they a Facer or No-Facer has every right to expect to see you at some point. This is the right of expectation, not an absolute right to see you. A No-Facer can still decline and be within his full rights. If you are unwilling to share your face, you must be prepared, as I am, for that discussion to end. Asking to see your face it not unreasonable.
Facers should be prepared that some men will not show their face regardless, and evaluate on their own how to deal with it. It may eliminate the possibility of physical contact, but if the discussion is engage, you can still talk.
For both sides, consider how important it is to see the other person’s face. Is it a deal breaker? Can you live with it? And remember, the other person as the right to make the decision they make. It’s not a question of rights, it’s a question of how you deal with it. Be prepared to accept the consequences of your decision.
The decision to post a face pic or not is up to the individual. Many have no problem with it, and those does show their willingness to commit. There are platforms you can post your face, your ass, your dick, how well you suck, how you fuck. There are a lot of guys who will want to see and appreciate. You are an adult, so you have made a decision on your life.
Others chose not to. No-Facers have their own reasons like Facers do. Some could have their jobs put in jeopardy if associated with kink. To some it may just be a preference. Regardless, a No-Facer is an adult and has made the decision just like a Facer has.
As discussions progress, very often a request to exchange face pics, to do a video call, or something else is made. This is perfectly natural, and shows a progression of of the relationship. No-Facers have a new choice. Some will share with people they have grown to trust. Others will not. Here is where we get to the crux of the matter. Given the ease and expectation of face pics, if you chose not to share, be prepared for that to cool things down.
The other person, be they a Facer or No-Facer has every right to expect to see you at some point. This is the right of expectation, not an absolute right to see you. A No-Facer can still decline and be within his full rights. If you are unwilling to share your face, you must be prepared, as I am, for that discussion to end. Asking to see your face it not unreasonable.
Facers should be prepared that some men will not show their face regardless, and evaluate on their own how to deal with it. It may eliminate the possibility of physical contact, but if the discussion is engage, you can still talk.
For both sides, consider how important it is to see the other person’s face. Is it a deal breaker? Can you live with it? And remember, the other person as the right to make the decision they make. It’s not a question of rights, it’s a question of how you deal with it. Be prepared to accept the consequences of your decision.
